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DOUBLY SAD NEWS |
We have received two pieces of sad news in the last few days .
Mark Hampson - RIP
Mark, born 30/10/60, passed away in his sleep last Wednesday night/ Thursday morning. He was a current member of the OWFC and only the previous Sunday played for the OWFC 2nd team.
His funeral will be held on Tuesday 15th December at 1pm in Ewell at St Mary the Virgin, Parish Church, on the London Road, B2200.(just off the A24). He leaves a young family.
From Stef M
Dean Julian - RIP
I don't know how many of you knew Dean who was a very good friend of Gill's and who worked behind the bar at the club. He looked after the clubhouse for us in the summer for the last 2 years when Gill went on holidays. He was working behind the bar last Sunday. He collapsed on the way home from the club on Sunday and never regained consciousness. His life support is being switched off shortly. He was a nice guy and once again was far too young to die, only 45. Maybe we could spare a prayer for him and his family and for Gill.
From Stef M
Just had the very sad news from Gill that Dean, one of our truly wonderful bar staff, died this morning after suddenly collapsing in Raynes Park on Sunday evening. He had been on life-support since an operation to remove a blood clot on his brain on Sunday evening. Gill has spent the last few days at his bedside, alongside his parents and brothers, and she is naturally in a state of shock.
From Liz Scott |
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MICHAEL EDGE RIP
7 May 1950 - 20 October 2009 |
Sadly Mick Edge died suddenly and unexpectedly at home on 20th October.
His funeral is to be held at Dorking cemetery on Monday 9th November at 1.30.
Mick was at the College from 1961 to 67 having previously attended The Sacred Heart primary school. He left to work for deBeers,the diamond merchants.He was clearly impressed,particularly by their Christmas entertainment at the Dorchester. Mick always enjoyed good food,drink and company. After leaving them some years later,he held a variety of jobs,often interrupted by extended travelling,one of his great loves. He recently returned in 2004 to spend a year in New Zealand and the Pacific Islands,having worked there some time before. Mick had a lifelong interest in all kinds of music,and always possessed the latest in hifi,to accompany his large and eclectic record collection. He was the person who suggested going along to "Middle Earth" where some outfit called Pink Floyd were playing. Over the last ten years Mick was very involved with the Surrey Hills Conservation volunteers.This gave him the great satisfaction of putting something back into the countryside that he so enjoyed walking. Mick was a deceptively strong person physically,despite having suffered badly from asthma since childhood.His other great strength lay in his ability to listen to and make time for everyone. For this alone he will be missed by many.
From: John Caraffi
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DERRICK PALENGAT RIP
23.1.1925 - 13.9.2009 |
Derrick grew up in Wimbledon, being educated at The Ursuline Prep, Donhead and the College from 1930 to 1943. He undoubtedly played rugby and cricket, but his passion was for tennis, which he played well into his later life. With other musically inclined 6th formers he formed The Gramophone Society, which organised summer concerts in the gardens of Donhead - to which the Ursuline girls were invited.
In 1943 he joined the Fleet Air Arm and trained as an observer at Greenwich, and was posted to the Pacific Fleet; during this time he was based on HMS Victorious and took part in a number of bombing raids on Japan. Following VJ day he went for training as a pilot, but the Royal Navy decided to reduce the numbers of new appointees. Derrick chose to leave the service, and he joined his father's wine business, Brooks Bodle. They held agencies for Calvet (Bordeaux and Beaune), Jouet champagne and Benedictine.
Subsequently the firm was taken over by Williams and Humbert, and this in turn was taken over by Sherry House. Here he met John Donovan, and with George Bull and Michael Quinlan they started The Sinnott Society some 40 years ago. On retirement from W & H he started again as an independent wine trader - under the name of Brooks Bodle !
Derrick married Denise, an Ursuline girl, and they had 2 children, living in Wimbledon for many years; subsequently moving to Lyndhurst in the New Forest.
Derrick had other passions - a miniature railway in his garden, a model train in their home, and music on spinnet and harpsichord.
He was also a keen traditional Catholic, and with Denise often spent Christmas and Easter at various Benedictine monasteries in France and Italy. Derrick's funeral at Lyndhurst was conducted in the traditional rite on 25th September.
Derrick is remembered by all as a gentle, kind and thoroughly good man throughout his long life. May he rest in peace |
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Geoffrey Frederick Andrew Tigar R I P
The Tigar family lived in Midmoor Road, over Worple Road from Edge Hill. Geoff was one of the first students enrolled at the newly opened Donhead (Wimbledon College Preparatory School) being a contemporary of Richard Milward. He progressed to the College, leaving at 17, for a short time job until, at 18 he enrolled in the Royal Air Force. After training in U K he was transferred to Canada where he had 6 months flying training; returning to England where he was a bomb aimer and front gunner in a Lancaster Bomber. He completed 34 missions, an amazing record, when 8 was the average for bomber crews. He gave credit to the excellent pilot.
When he was demobbed, he was recommended to Norwich Union by the Headmaster of the College, and along with several other OWs trained for his life-long career. He was appointed Inspector at Uxbridge Office, and was later promoted to the City of London.
At the College Geoff had been no mean rugby and cricket player, both of which sports he continued with the Old Boys, for, as Monica called it 'quite long enough !'. One colleague recalls Geoff at the O W week evenings nets at the College, when Geoff always batted last - his excellent eyesight due, he said, due to all the carrots the RAF gave him !
Whilst studiously working for his insurance exams, he plucked up courage, courted and in 1949 married a beautiful ex-Ursuline girl, Monica Burger. They originally lived in Putney, but on the promotion to Uxbridge they moved to Gerrards Cross. Their happy marriage gave fruit to 4 daughters and one son. Geoff was a passionate gardener, and deeply keen on classical music. After retirement, Geoff and Monica eventually moved to Sidmouth, to live close to some long-term friends. Thier house just one road from the Church, gave Geoff the opportunity for frequent Mass. A smaller garden meant that he concentrated on potted plants, where the patio is a colourful arrray of his collection - including every new rose he ever found. However arthritis had caught up with him, and he eventually drove an electric buggy, both to Mass and the local shops. This became more difficult as his sight weakened, and he resorted to listening to music on a recent purchase - a DVD player. Cancer suddenly arrived and Geoff died peacefully at home within a few weeks at the age of 85, and just a short time from their 59th wedding anniversary. His funeral on 28th March was a wonderful appreciation of his life with family and many friends from parish and afar.
Geoff has a brother, Lawrie, who lives in Perth, Australia.
Monica is in good health, and radiates a warm smile of contentment (and home made cakes) to all visitors to Sidmouth.
Geoff was a kind and considerate gentleman to all who met him. May he now rest in the peace of The Lord. |
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Kevin Francis Donovan
(10.1.1938 - 5.12.2008)
Kevin was born in South Wimbledon and baptised at St Winefride’s Church, he originally attended St Mary’s Primary School, before transferring to Donhead in 1945; and in due course to Wimbledon College in 1949, leaving in 1956.
Kevin joined Ralph Smith’s firm in Wimbledon, and qualified as a Chartered Quantity Surveyor. In due course he joined the S W Thames Hospital Board (HB) and worked throughout South London and Surrey on hospital, clinic and other facilities.
Kevin married Gay Staples, a Wimbledon Ursuline girl, on 11th July 1964. They have 3 children – Simon, Daniel and Helen, and 1 grandson, Tyri.
In 1967 they moved to Backwell in the Bristol area Kevin working for the local HB. In 1970 they moved back to Stoneleigh, and finally to Epsom. Kevin rejoined the SWL HB, which was subsequently privatized and later taken over by Capita. Kevin retired in 1996.
In the OWs Kevin served on the Cricket Committee for over 25 years, including as Chairman on 3 occasions. He was deeply involved with the Ground Committee for the Coombe Lane ground; and for several years has been PRO for the Rugby Club, writing informed and amusing commentaries for the weekly bulletin.
Kevin and Gay worked quietly and effectively for HCPT, TRWL and Bosnian refugees; visiting Lourdes, (and many times to Calais, marking up the pilgrim trains), Romania and Bosnia. More recently they have supported SSMILE, an Epsom parish based charity assisting a parish and school in Kerala, India; and Action in Africa, based in Ashtead parish.
The OWs have lost one of their truly great men. May he rest in peace.
John Donovan |
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Bernard Quinlan attended Donhead between 1939 and 1943, moving to the College until 1950. He excelled both academically and in all things sporting, becoming prefect and captain of More house in his final year. He moved on to read both classics and law at Oxford, took his two years of National Service in the Royal Artillery before joining Esso, and later several other major organisations, in a management and administrative capacity. In those years he added an MBA degree at Harvard to his achievements.
Bernard married local girl Judy, a marriage which produced 3 children. Sadly Judy died in 1980. He continued his life in Suffolk where he settled with his new wife Heather and her children. His activities there involved much parish work including the formation of a parish choir. Bernard joined the Sue Ryder charity and was agent for a number of their homes. He researched, wrote, and published a history of the village of Chelsworth where he lived. He became engrossed in the years when he had attended the College, the 1950s, a very important period of the school’s development to grammar status under the headship of Fr John Sinnott SJ and Bernard’s collection of personal contributions, the editorship and publication of the “ The Sinnott Years“ were masterly. Not just that, Bernard subsequently spent much time carrying around a large box or case from which he charmingly and persuasively managed to sell most of the stock. This was very typical of Bernard’s eagerness to succeed both in his tasks and in his obvious love of his friends.
Bernard’s commitment on the field of play was just as full, alongside his brothers Michael and Raymond. His rush for the no.9 shirt, well, to scrum-half position as numbers were not commonly in use, kept him fully in the thick of the action week after week during the 1950s and 60s whenever he was in the country, and a bit less frequently in OW cricket sides as wicket-keeper and ebullient middle order batsman. When settling back near home he took up both allegiances once more around 1970 and became both Old Boy rugby captain for 1973 and cricket captain and first chairman of cricket also in 1973. In subsequent years he fulfilled his sporting keenness and fitness with several years of marathon running, taking in the testing events of London, Paris and New York.
Bernard’s disciplined Catholic family upbringing doubtless helped his appreciation of the difficulties of wartime living, on occasion harrowing, along with the excitements that existed in railway train-spotting on the main line into London, some of the V1 assaults towards London or in adventure at school camps and rugby tours to Dublin. His faith would have helped him accept the diagnosis of aggressive thyroid cancer in July which proved terminal and culminating in a peaceful death at his home on 21st October alongside his loving wife and family. Bernard kept a wonderful lightness of heart to the end having given so much inspiration to many during his life. RIP.
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Peter Salmon
We have received the following from Andrew Salmon
Sadly, he passed away peacefully in his sleep on Monday at St Raphael's Hospice due to the big C.
My mother was snoozing in a chair next to him when he slipped away. He was in no pain whatsoever.
He had lung cancer last autumn (even though he's never smoked ......thanks a bunch!) and we were worried he wasn't going to make his golden wedding anniversary celebration this July but the old boy pulled through and we had a wonderful day, Chez Grand Drive, which he thoroughly enjoyed, as he still had his faculties at the time.
It's nice to know that he is now at the Heaven Oval, sitting in his deckchair, in his rightful place i.e next to Ted Travers, at the Pearly Gates End, looking down on proceedings, listening to Mr T moaning about 1.5 year old Lois Travers not being picked for the OWCC Colts because she's 'too young'.
May the old fella rest in peace.
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| Peter Hull |
We have received the following from John Simmonds
It is with sadness that I write to inform you of the death of my father Peter Hull on Tuesday 19th August. I found your details on some correspondence regarding the Old Wimbledonians Association.
The funeral took place in East Grinstead at The Church of Our Lady and St Peter at noon on Thursday 28th August.
If there are other people in the association who you think may like to know please do pass this information on.
Kind regards
Clare Parkinson |
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| Kevin Crawley RIP |
| From Steve Cornwell
Kevin died of a brain tumour on 8 June and his funeral was held on 30 June.
Kevin Crawley attended the College 1965 – 1972. He was an outstanding sportsman. At rugby he won his 1st XV colours as a result of his strong running and formidable tackling. He partnered Steve Cornwell a close friend in the centre and also in the team was another close friend Andre Groenen younger brother of Harry. Harry with John Harrison were cutting their teeth at the time as 1st XV coaches. During training “Get Harrison” used to be the centres call and they usually did.
Kevin was also a very useful batsman and represented the College cricket team throughout school under the illustrious captaincy of Charlie Travers.
On leaving the College Kevin played rugby down the Old Boys for a few years and then he found squash another sport at which he excelled.
Kevins career was with the Bank of England from where he took early retirement about five years ago. Kevin will be sadly missed. He leaves two teenage sons.
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| Willy Maeckelberghe RIP |
From Pat Rooney
Earlier this week I wrote a letter to Willy Maeckelberghe (1940-46) whom all OWs of that period will never forget, to tell him of the death of Tony Kelleher his immediate predecessor as captain of the College 1st XV. Sadly his widow has just rung me to tell me that Willy himself had died suddenly only 2 months ago. In the view of Fr, Wetz and who better to judge, Willy was the finest rugby player ever turned out by the College. It is arguable that Tony himself was the finest sprinter .Please remember them both and their widows and families in your prayers.
From Tony Driver
One of my earlist memories of college life is being shipped down to Coombe Lane whilst in Figures and Ruds, to watch and cheer on the First Fifteen. I remember Willy and "Butch" so well. Great players. I think Willy went on to Guys Hospital and captained the united hospitals 15 back in the days when they were a force to be reckoned with! Never mind the studies, get on with the rugby!!! It comes to us all, but their passing is sad. Good lives both.
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| Tony Kelleher RIP |
Tony (nickname “Butch”) attended the College throughout the War years leaving in 1945.
A great sportsman, he won the Victor Ludorum and captained the first XV playing on the wing. He was a Prefect and Captain of More House. After leaving College, he played on the wing for London Irish. In recent years, he was heavily involved administratively with Maidstone RFC. On leaving school, Tony served in the Royal Engineers for National Service partly spent in Malaya. On demobilisation, he read Civil Engineering at Battersea Technical College (which later became Surrey University) and spent his working life with Kier & Co, Civil Engineers. He retired as MD of one of their subsidiary companies.
Tony is survived by his wife, Margaret (nee Lickman), and their 2 sons and 1 daughter. Requiem as Aylesford Friary, Kent on Monday 6th August 2007 at 12 Noon (Exit Junction 6 on M20).
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Anthony Edward Montfort RIP |
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Dear Friends of Tony,
Some sad news. Tony Montfort died at about 6.15 this evening(26th June, 2007.) For the last 18 hours he had been sleeping very peacefully. When I saw him this morning, there was no sign of any anxiety in him at all. It appears he suffered no pain. His family were with him.
Obviously our thoughts and prayers go out to his family.
I will let you have further information about his funeral as soon as I have it.
With great sadness of heart,
Fr Tim Curtis SJ,
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| Visit Jesuit Missions Web site for full obituaries and tributes page |
Brian McCarthy, RIP
We have just been informed the very sad news that Old College Boy and OWFC member, Brian McCarthy has been found dead at home at the age of 54.
Brian was heavily involved in the Football Club shortly after the move back to the Wimbledon area at the Atkinson Morley Ground. He became coach and right hand man to Chris Davies 1st Team Manager. Following this Brian was elected as Chairman of the Club taking the Club into the Morden & District League. On leaving the Chairmanship, Brian became 1st team manager for several years.
Although not as involved in recent years, Brian was often seen down at the club on a Sunday watching the 1st Team play, and afterwards at the bar always with a pint in his hand and always bought by someone else! His jokes were legendary!
He shall be missed. (There are some messages from Old Old Boys on the OWFC message board.)
John Maurice Gibson, RIP
OW (1955-62)
The death occurred on Friday, 13th of April, of John Maurice Gibson, aged 62. He had been ill with lung cancer.
Those who remember him as the fleet footed wing forward in the rugby XV of 1961-62 may have been surprised by his later transformation into a highly creative architect.
Having worked for a West End partnership he then set up by himself as an independent - he was after all a highly independent soul - and got involved with all manner of projects, many in Ireland, as well as semi-permanent renovations on his town house in Camden .
He leaves two sons, Paul and Matthew. His former wife Dolly died a few years ago suddenly on a business trip in Prague
The funeral was held on 24th April at Golder's Green Crematorium Chapel with standing room only as his local pub, The Lord Stanley, attended in force and then retreated back to Camden Town for a suitable Irish wake for the rest of the day.
John was born in County Down and came over to England when aged 2. He spent a good deal of his later days in the pub in Camden where he was very obviously fondly remembered by all the patrons there.
Graham Clements, RIP
Please remember in your thoughts and prayers Graham Clements (1948-55) who died on 20th March after a brave fight against bone cancer. Graham’s funeral will be at 12 noon on Friday 30th March at St Mary’s Church, Surrenden Road, Preston Park, Brighton.
Please remember Di and Graham’s 4 children, his brother John and sister Maureen (married to Peter Wilson, a contemporary at the College).
Maureen Kelly R.I.P
Maureen Kelly, wife of Bernard (1951-56) and mother of Sean, died on the night of 3rd/4th January following some seven weeks in intensive care. Maureen was a frequent visitor and match supporter at the rugby club over many years. Our thoughts go to Bernard, Sean and the family at this time.
Hilary Sutton R.I.P
Hilary Sutton (1947-53) died suddenly at home on 3rd January aged 72. The Funeral took place on Friday January 12th at St Joan of Arc Church, Farnham, Surrey at 2 p.m.
Christopher Mildner R.I.P
Chris Mildner (1951-56) was sadly found dead in bed by one of his sons visiting on Christmas Day. After leaving the College Chris played regularly for the Old Wimbledonians Rugby Club during the 50’s and 60’s.
The funeral service was held, St Michaels Church Woodfield Lane, Ashtead on Wednesday 17th January at 10.00 am.
Richard Milward R.I.P
Richard Milward died on Thursday 7th December 2006 aged 82. The funeral service was held
at the Sacred Heart, Edge Hill on Wednesday 20th December at 10am.
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Raymond O’Donnell R.I.P
We have also been informed of the death of Raymond O’Donnell (1949-56) in November last year.
Martin Murphy R.I.P
Martin Murphy (1951-56) died the day afer Peter from complications following an operation for an aneurysm. Martin had always played an active part in the Association and was the then Our thoughts and parayers go to Linda and the family..
Peter Wilkins R.I.P
Peter Wilkins (1943-50) died after a long illness which he bore with immense dignity and courage. For years Peter was involved in running our sports grounds both at Chesington and Coombe Lane. Our thought are with Jill and the boys at this sad time.
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